In total 13 males (mean age 68.7±12.1 years) and 12 females (mean age 63.4±9.5 years) were interviewed. Most prevalent clusters in males were LUTS and defecation problems (n=7, with or without other symptoms as well), and LUTS and sexual dysfunction (n=6, with or without other symptoms as well). Most prevalent clusters in females were: LUTS and defecation problems (n=8, with or without other symptoms as well), and LUTS and pelvic pain (n=7, with or without other symptoms as well). Four males and five females sought help for all their symptoms, five males and five females did not seek any help and four males and two females sought help for some, but not all of their symptoms.
Figure 1 illustrates the themes found in this study for seeking help and not seeking help. Since help seeking is a process in which multiple factors play a role, there can be more than one theme or subtheme applicable for one participant. The associations between themes and subthemes are illustrated in the figure.
Factors that influence help-seeking behaviour (both as a facilitator and as a barrier) are duration, severity and type of the symptoms, and the impact of the symptoms on (activities in) daily life. Other overlapping themes were the influence from someone else in their surroundings, and the role of their doctor (i.e. relation/connection with their health care provider). Themes specific for not seeking help were: the conception that it is useless (nothing to do about it, age-related, and part of life), having a negative earlier experience when looking for help for their symptoms, feelings of shame or embarrassment, finding it difficult to discuss the symptoms, and practising self-help (e.g. using incontinence pads). Facilitators for seeking help were having a specific question for a health care professional, and experiencing emotional distress because of the symptoms.
Differences between males and females
Although most themes apply for both sexes, we found some specific themes for males and for females. Males generally do not quickly seek help for their symptoms. Furthermore, males specifically mentioned sexual complaints (type of symptom), either as a reason to seek help, or as a barrier to seek help. For females, having pelvic pain or prolapse symptoms were specific reasons to seek help. Furthermore, having no trust in, or having a negative relation with their general practitioner prevented females from seeking help. Furthermore, females do not seek help when they experience their symptoms as being part of the female sex and therefore, in their opinion, nothing can be done about it.